#AtoZChallenge: P is for Pagan

Early this year I decided to call myself the Pagan Housewife for the purposes of my blog. I felt like I needed something to encompass the subjects I write about, and since I write about aspects of daily life, my spiritual adventures, and of course, my books, then I needed something to reflect that.

I am pagan. It is a label I have only assigned to myself during the past five years, and it took a lot of deliberating, because I felt that to be pagan, I had to actively do something official, you know, like spell casting. Truthfully there is nothing I needed to do. I simply need to be.

#AtoZChallenge Badge P by vampire writer Catherine Green at SpookyMrsGreen.com mindful parenting and modern pagan lifestyle blog.
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#AtoZChallenge: P is for Pagan

Our world is crazy. Here in western society we are put through school and college, encouraged to go out and get a job, and we are taught to conform to all kinds of ideals and moral beliefs. There is nothing wrong with this system per se, but sometimes I feel it breeds a little too much insecurity. It is easy to see the rise in health problems within our society during recent decades. More people succumb to chronic pain conditions, and more people are admitting they have mental health challenges.

The pressures of modern life are simply too great. We forget to appreciate the world around us that Mother Nature created and continues to nurture. We forget to stop and admire the sky, the water, the ground, and even the air that we breathe. To be pagan is to live within the world as a nature spirit. I try to be mindful of my environment while doing the human things that I do every day. That is my version of being pagan.

See you tomorrow, for the next letter in the #AtoZChallenge.

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Paranormal Author Catherine Green

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#AtoZChallenge: O is for Out and About

Being a writer can be a very insular and lonely existence. We spend long periods of time scribbling in notebooks or typing on our computers, and we barely stop to glance out of the window.

Of course, being a mother of young children, I have to step away from the computer quite regularly. We spend a lot of time in the park, and we take our dog for walks by the canal near where we live.

It is all very good for the soul, being outside in the fresh air and embracing a change of scenery.

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#AtoZChallenge: O is for Out and About

Another reason for me to get out is to share my books with the world. I have a life outside of the internet, and there are people who want to discover and read my novels. I want them to do so, but how to get those novels to those readers? Well, I have to take them out. I have started attending mind, body and spirit events in the Cheshire region, speaking about my experiences as a ghost hunter, telling people about my paranormal romance novels, and basically sharing myself with anyone who wants to talk. I love meeting new people, because they all bring new ideas for my future stories, and everyone has a history to share. I also visit libraries and work with the local council on arts based projects in my capacity as an author. Perhaps I will see you at an upcoming event?

New Novel: Vampire of Blackpool

I am launching my fifth novel, The Vampire of Blackpool, at our next event in Crewe, Cheshire. Download your free copy of It’s Complicated if you want a sample of my story style. Thank you.

See you tomorrow, for the next letter in the #AtoZChallenge.

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Meet the Authors at Sandbach Library

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My Kitchen Renovation Project: Trade Reviews

My kitchen renovation is complete and in this blog post I want to thank the local tradespeople that helped create my dream kitchen.

I would like to share a couple of local recommendations for the tradespeople that helped bring my new kitchen into fruition.

My Kitchen Renovation: Working with Wonky Walls! Local joiner Darren Sproston from DS Joinery Middlewich has the challenge of installing my new fitted kitchen in a small Victorian terraced house. SpookyMrsGreen.com mindful parenting and modern pagan lifestyle blog.
My Kitchen Renovation: Working with Wonky Walls

Trade Reviews

The biggest part of the job was completed by Darren Sproston of DS Joinery. He assembled and fitted all of our units, and I am in awe of how he managed such a feat when we took delivery of a pile of boxes, fixings and bits of wood on the appointed date. There was no way my husband and I could have sorted through all of that. We are not exactly DIY-minded, put it that way!

Anyway, after searching for someone local that could do the job for us, I found DS Joinery and booked him in. Darren was very flexible with the job, he worked well in a confined space (our house is rather small), and he was very accommodating to my children and dog when they kept ‘checking up’ on the work in progress. It’s the little touches that make the difference, I find, and DS Joinery is very much a family company that gets the job done properly, and for a reasonable price as well.

I also had to call on a local electrician to help install my new cooker. For this job I used Rick Duffy from RD Electrics, based in Winsford. He came and installed a new motherboard for our electrics just last year, and again he worked very well around my children and dog, which is important. He was efficient, prompt, and very reliable. I will not hesitate to call on both DS Joinery, and RD Electrics, for any future jobs that need doing.

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#LookAgain My Kitchen Renovation at SpookyMrsGreen.com

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#AtoZChallenge: N is for Novelist

Being a novelist is a dream come true for me, quite literally. Of course, it didn’t come about in quite the same way that I imagined when I was a child.

Back then I saw novelists as mystical, magical beings that created these fabulous works of art through which I could escape the boredom of daily life. I didn’t think I was good enough to write stories that people would want to publish, let alone read. Evidently, I was wrong.

#AtoZChallenge Badge N by vampire writer Catherine Green at SpookyMrsGreen.com mindful parenting and modern pagan lifestyle blog.
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#AtoZChallenge: N is for Novelist

My first novel was published by Mirador, a small, independent press based in Somerset, England. They subsequently published my next two books in the series, which now form what I collectively call The Redcliffe Novels trilogy. They are the manifestation of a dream that began when I was around seventeen, after I had discovered the Nightworld series of novels, written by L.J. Smith. I wanted to write my own story, from a British perspective, of how vampires and werewolves might live among society over here in the UK. And I did. It took a little encouragement from my sister, but I got the novels written, and now they are published and out there in the big, wide world. Gulp!

See you tomorrow, for the next letter in the #AtoZChallenge.

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LGBT werewolf fantasy story “It’s Complicated (The Redcliffe Novels)” by Catherine Green

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#AtoZChallenge: M is for Mother

Being a Mother is my most important job. That might sound a bit cheesy, but it is absolutely true. I never saw myself as the maternal type, before I had children.

I had this vague idea that I would one day have a family, but I never considered the full implications. It is just something that people do, you know?

Well, I am learning fast that being a mother is bloody hard work, especially in a society that encourages you to spend time with your children, while simultaneously telling you to go and get a job.

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#AtoZChallenge: M is for Mother

I look at my own mother now and wonder how she did it all back when we were children. My mum has raised three children to be very independent spirits (my sister is a wandering hippy, and my brother is an adventurous entrepreneur). She had a successful career in middle management, moving from property sales into local authority social services, with a few odd jobs in-between when we were younger. And she is there for us now, whenever we need her, for advice and assistance, and babysitting. If I can be to my children what my mum is to me, then I will be a very happy mother!

And then there are my other babies; my beloved books and stories. Download your free copy of my LGBT fantasy short story “It’s Complicated (A Redcliffe Short Story).” Thank you.

See you tomorrow, for the next letter in the #AtoZChallenge.

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#AtoZChallenge: L is for Love

Love Hurts. Love Kills. Love Redeems. The Darkness of Love.

Those are the titles of my first four published novels. Does that tell you a little bit about my experiences of being in love? I think so.

Now, before you get all sympathetic, let me tell you that I am actually happily married. It isn’t perfect, but it is real love, of that I am sure. My husband loves me, and I love him. We love our children. We love our dog (who is our third child). We love our friends and family. Heck, I love the whole world!

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#AtoZChallenge Badge L

#AtoZChallenge: L is for Love

All of my stories have elements of love within them. It is the thing that consumes me every day, whether I am consciously aware of this fact, or not. Everything that I do for my husband and my children is born of my love for them. Love just is. Simple as that. It is a force that you cannot describe, and it exists in many different forms. My novels and short stories centre around romantic love between characters, and mutual love between friends and family members. It is equally important either way. Just like in real life.

You can see how I approach themes of being in love, and of loving other people, by downloading your free book, LGBT fantasy short story It’s Complicated (The Redcliffe Novels). Thank you.

See you tomorrow, for the next letter in the #AtoZChallenge.

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LGBT werewolf fantasy story “It’s Complicated (The Redcliffe Novels)” by Catherine Green

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#AtoZChallenge: K is for Kinky

Ha ha, that got your attention, didn’t it? Today I want to lighten the mood a little. I am conscious that my blog posts may have seemed a little dark and depressing, or maybe a little aggressive, as I poured out my feelings of frustration and impatience about the perceptions of housewives and freelance writers in today’s world.

I am not simply a mother and writer, however. Oh no. I am a wife, and we all know what husbands and wives get up to when they find five minutes of peace from the children…

#AtoZChallenge Badge K by vampire writer Catherine Green at SpookyMrsGreen.com mindful parenting and modern pagan lifestyle blog.
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#AtoZChallenge: K is for Kinky

Now, I cannot go into too much detail because my mother might be reading this post (sorry Mum!). But lets be honest: most of us do have a kinky side to our personalities. It might not necessarily be expressed through sex. It could be expressed through writing. It could be expressed through art. It could even be something that just exudes from a person who is naturally quite fun and flirty. My husband and I can be very kinky, let me tell you. It doesn’t matter how grumpy we are with each other in every day life. When we have alone time, we make the most of it, in very intimate ways. I will leave your imagination to run wild… Have a lovely day, now!

If you would like to see just how kinky I can be, then read My Vampire Boyfriend (A Redcliffe Short Story Anthology). Be warned, there are some rather explicit scenes in there! Thank you.

See you tomorrow, for the next letter in the #AtoZChallenge.

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LGBT fantasy short stories set in Cornwall. My Vampire Boyfriend (The Redcliffe Novels) by Catherine Green.

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#AtoZChallenge: J is for Journey

“Just a small-town girl, living in a lonely world…”

Yep, that just about sums me up! But I didn’t choose Journey as my #AtoZChallenge theme just to talk about the band and that famous song. No, what I mean is that we are all on a journey. Everybody is unique, and our experiences are very personal and very special.

Sometimes we neglect to acknowledge just how special we are. Sometimes we decide that our journey in life is unfulfilling, or unpleasant, or maybe simply boring.

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#AtoZChallenge: J is for Journey

Well, then it is up to us as individuals to fix the problem. Nobody will swoop in and rescue you from a perceived black hole. Nope. You must do it yourself. That is a big life lesson for me on this journey. And I am still taking steps to rescue myself. As for everyone around me in desperate situations… well they will fit in where they can, or wait until I am able to devote some time to them. Simple. Have a lovely day, now!

See you tomorrow, for the next letter in the #AtoZChallenge.

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#AtoZChallenge: I is for Impatient

Most people think of me as a very calm and contained person. Outwardly, I suppose I am. Inwardly, however, I am a whirl of chaos, currently ruled by impatience.

I am impatient with my children when they get under my feet. I am impatient with my husband when he won’t do the jobs I request around the home. I am impatient with myself most of all. Sometimes it turns sour, and I have to rein myself in, other times I simply laugh at myself for letting silly things upset me.

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#AtoZChallenge: I is for Impatient

At the moment, I am mostly impatient with the very slow development of my career. Once I decided to be a professional writer, I set about applying for paid writing jobs in all sorts of places. I managed to get one or two very low paid jobs, and eventually I quit those because there were not worth my time or effort. I am trying very hard to sell my books, but I fear my efforts will not succeed until I can afford to pay someone to do the job for me. So I am looking for another regular job just to earn a bit of money. Unfortunately, this is not so easy when I have to source childcare and travel arrangements on a zero budget. I am living the catch-22 situation that so many fellow mothers in the UK are dealing with (and a small number of fathers). I can’t speak for other countries, but I would be interested to hear your feedback.

A crazy, irrational emotion

Being impatient is just one more of those crazy, irrational emotions that I live with at the moment. There are a lot of things happening around me that I feel helpless to remedy, even though in many cases I can see a reasonable solution. My work attempts are waning now as I take a step back to reassess the situation and decide where my priorities ultimately lie. I mean, my children are my priority at the moment, that is true, but so are my books. They are a part of me, just as much as my offspring. And I am impatient because I need the world to read my stories, fall in love with my characters, and support me as I continue to write and publish more wonderful works. Now, hurry up, I have work to do!

Could I tempt you to read my new short story, The Wolf and the Fairy, available to download now? Thank you!

See you tomorrow, for the next letter in the #AtoZChallenge.

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Contemporary adult Gothic fairytale “The Wolf and the Fairy” by Catherine Green.

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#AtoZChallenge: H is for Housewife

Being a housewife is a role that still doesn’t quite sit right with me. I mean, yes, I adore my children, and I am very fortunate to be in a position where I am home with them every day. I never wanted to be a housewife.

Growing up I saw my mum going out to work and still being available for me and my siblings when we needed her. I was encouraged to be an independent woman when I left education. Of course, the reality changed dramatically when I fell in love and decided to get married. Darn these emotions!

#AtoZChallenge Badge H by vampire writer Catherine Green at SpookyMrsGreen.com mindful parenting and modern pagan lifestyle blog.
#AtoZChallenge Badge H

#AtoZChallenge: H is for Housewife

I often liken myself to a favourite movie character, Shirley Valentine, from the film of the same name. There are lots of Shirleys in the world, I realise. We are not all dowdy, downtrodden housewives, contrary to popular misconception. In fact, being a housewife is something to take pride in. We work damned hard to raise our children as happy, healthy, intelligent individuals. We work hard to make our homes nice places to live and play. None of this is recognized in the wider world, of course. If I could only receive some sort of “housewife benefit” as a token gesture of the work I do, then I would feel a little more validated. As it stands, my husband’s wage barely covers our household expenses, and so I find myself in the position of needing to seek paid work that I can fit around my children, since we also cannot afford childcare.

Yes, it is a double edged sword, indeed. I am not a domestic goddess by any stretch of the imagination. I have no interest in dusting, vacuuming, scrubbing toilets or any of that stuff. To me, those jobs are menial necessities. I do take pride in a clean house, but it takes a lot of effort for me to put in the time and labour for the job. And at the moment my priority is tending to my children, and building my freelance business. Fellow housewives, come and share your experiences. What does it mean to be a housewife in the 21st century?

Could I tempt you to read my new short story, The Wolf and the Fairy, available to download now? Thank you!

See you tomorrow, for the next letter in the #AtoZChallenge.

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Contemporary adult Gothic fairytale “The Wolf and the Fairy” by Catherine Green.

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