Summer is upon us, and we are bombarded by media images coaxing us to try different methods of dating, to find our true love, or simply to have a summer fling. I’m talking Love Island, First Dates and all those other TV shows that are popular right now. There has even been a series of programmes exploring alternative sex lives, pornography and LGBTQ+ lifestyle. Have you explored dating within the BDSM community? This is an area I am enjoying now, and more specifically, femdom dating. Traditionally, dominant sex partners were men, and submissive partners were women. But the balance of power is changing, and women are taking back control of the men in their lives. Now you will find dominant women seeking men or women to be submissive, over whom they can exert any number of mind games, sexual tension, sensual control and other activities. Femdom is a fast-growing industry, and indeed a very exhilarating lifestyle for the right people. Some men feel they are expected to be dominant and commanding in their professional lives, when really, they just want to bow before the feet of their Mistress or Master and do as they are told. Here is where femdom dating can be the answer to your prayers.
Some men and women can live in quite submissive personal situations, and they want the opportunity to throw off the shackles and restraints. When you have grown up in a society that teaches you to obey authority and follow orders, sometimes you want to break free from that institution, issue your own orders, and have someone kneeling before you to be your plaything and your sounding board. When your daily life becomes a boring routine, it can be fun to shake it up a little and meet some new people with new ideas. Subs and Doms will naturally come together and find their dynamic, either as a duo or something more. Subs will often need punishment and training from both a Mistress and a Master, to provide different experiences and create different results. Doms will have a set routine for training and punishment of their subs, and occasionally they grow bored of the sub they are working with. Then it is time to find a new sub, or perhaps more than one, so that they can create a collection of willing slaves to do their bidding. The world of domination and submission is so very expansive that it cannot be explained in words. It must be lived, experienced, felt by the individual. What feels good for one sub may not have the desired effect on another person. One Dom may use very different toys and methods of punishment, or they learn what their sub will respond to, and adjust their play sessions accordingly. Ultimately, when you explore the BDSM world, you will be awestruck, unable to break free, and totally in love with the lifestyle. Happy playtime!
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