SpookyMrsGreen

As we find ourselves halfway through Pride Month, I feel it’s the perfect time to reflect on what it means to be a proud wife and mother in a family that embraces LGBTQ+ identities with love, openness, and ongoing growth.

Read my blog post to discover my family story where we cannot always be ourselves publicly but our light shines quietly within our safe space.

Supporting My LGBTQ+ Family

This journey hasn’t always been straightforward. My daughter is still young—just finishing her first year at high school—but she is already surrounded by a diverse and supportive group of LGBTQ+ friends. She attends the weekly Rainbow Club with pride, and I’ve watched her confidence blossom as she explores her identity, builds new friendships, and finds her voice in a world that often feels loud and complicated. I couldn’t be prouder of the kind, creative and compassionate young person she is becoming.

Then there is my husband—my partner of twenty-five years, and my husband of fifteen. His story is different. His journey through sexuality and identity has been quieter, lonelier, and much more internalised. He only came out to me several years into our marriage, and while it didn’t change the love between us, it did open up a whole new chapter of honesty, reflection, and healing.

He has carried the weight of societal expectations for most of his life—masking, hiding, conforming. Add to that the recent realisation that he is neurodivergent, and it becomes even clearer just how complex and brave his story really is. Autism can often blur the emotional landscape, making it difficult to express deep truths or even recognise them for yourself. I know now that he’s spent decades trying to understand how to fit into a world that never gave him the right tools.

We have so much more to learn about each other

We’re still figuring things out, and that’s okay. Love doesn’t come with a rulebook, and neither does marriage. What matters is that we are open, we are honest, and we are learning what he needs to be truly happy—whether that means redefining our relationship or reshaping our home life to better suit everyone’s emotional needs. He is not alone anymore. And neither am I.

Being an LGBTQ+ ally isn’t just about waving a rainbow flag once a year. It’s about listening. It’s about unlearning. It’s about loving without limits and supporting the people we care about as they evolve into their truest, most authentic selves. That includes our children, our partners, our friends—and even ourselves.

So this Mummy Monday, I want to send love to all the families like mine who are navigating their way through love, identity, and acceptance with courage and heart. Whether you’re out and proud, quietly questioning, or somewhere in between, you are valid. You are seen. You are loved.

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Let’s wear our Pride with power. Let’s love without limits. And let’s raise the next generation to do the same. 🌈

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