An NHS Hospital Waiting Room

It is November 2010 and I am attending the Manchester Royal Eye Hospital Outpatients Department for a routine appointment.Ā I am almost seven months pregnant at this time so am feeling quite uncomfortable and tired, but I need to have my check-up so here I am.  

Fortunately this newly built hospital is very comfortable as far as hospitals go, and I know what to expect since I have been a patient here for the last six years.

NHS Hospitals Manchester Royal Eye Hospital visited by Catherine Green at SpookyMrsGreen.com mindful parenting and modern pagan lifestyle blog.
NHS Hospitals Manchester Royal Eye Hospital

An NHS Hospital Waiting Room

The waiting room is full of people but has aĀ hushed atmosphere about it.Ā I select a chair and settle myself down, reaching for my book, expecting to wait for at least an hour because that is what usually happens here.Ā The energy in this room feels tired, lethargic, and it isn’t long before my eyelids start drooping.Ā Of course, my chronic Dry Eye syndrome only adds to the discomfort, but that isn’t the clinic I’m visiting today.Ā Nope, this clinic is plastic surgery, to check the progress (or non-progress) of my in-growing eyelashes!

Anyway, back to the waiting room.Ā It is Friday, and I overhear the nurses at their station talking about an early finish and how they are ready for the weekend.Ā They are jovial and happy to have reached the end of the week, and I don’t blame them, they work hard.Ā Most of the nurses in that place recognize me; I’m practically part of the furniture!

“It’s not fair!”

ā€œIt’s not fair!ā€ My attention is drawn to a few of the patients sitting opposite me, and the woman who is getting frustrated with her wait.Ā One of the doctors has called in another female patient who arrived after the couple sitting before me, and they want to know why she gets preferential treatment.

A nurse comes over to try and help, and calmly explains that there are a few doctors in the surgery today, and that patients are seen on a rotation.Ā This couple are on a different rotation, which is decided according to individual patients’ needs and severity of condition.Ā I know this, having been given the same information several years ago on a particularly long wait.Ā The couple are slightly mollified but still unhappy, and sit grumbling and engaging in conversation with a few other patients sharing the same sentiments.

I shift in my seat, pick up my book again, and switch off from listening to their complaining, safe in my own little bubble of protective, warm energy.Ā After all, the doctors are doing their best, and it is surprising how many people are afflicted with eye problems that require hospital treatment.

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Vampires and Werewolves: What do the myths represent?

There are many conflicting and similar accounts of vampires and werewolves in history and folklore.Ā  My personal belief is that these mysterious creatures reflect humanity’s greatest desires and their greatest fears all at the same time.

For a start, wherever there is a vampire there is usually a werewolf close by, and vice versa.Ā  And then we add a few ghosts and spirits.Ā  But why are these creatures so closely connected, why do they appear human but display non-human characteristics, and why even now in the 21st century are we so obsessed with them in popular culture?

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Vampires and Werewolves: What do the myths represent?

It is interesting to see how these creatures are used to reflect the Western world’s collective xenophobia.  This was first displayed in Bram Stoker’s legendary novel Dracula. A strange and grotesque old man from a foreign land inhabited by bats and wolves, buys a home in a nice part of old London and sets about growing younger by the day and seducing the local young virginal ladies – shocking!

And then we move into the present day, when the world is wiser and we are more accepting of other cultures and faiths – well most of us.Ā  We have recently seen the television dramatization of True Blood written by Charlaine Harris.Ā  Here we have vampires who were local civil war soldiers who find themselves cast out by Southern American society much like African-American ex-slaves were back in the 1950s and 1960s.Ā  And then she threw a shape-shifting dog into the equation!Ā  Why not a wolf?Ā  Because a dog can be innocent and far less frightening to humans!

What do vampires and werewolves mean to us?

So what do vampires and werewolves actually mean to us humans and why are they so important?  Well my first thought is that they represent everything that make us human, but magnified a million times more.

For example, take simple human emotion.Ā We accept that people meet other people and fall in love and that we use the physical act of making love to show our feelings for each other.Ā But society dictates that we are only supposed to do this with one person, our one true love, at any one time in our lives.

We are supposed to find this one person, marry them, have children and grow old together.Ā But humans have sexual appetites that vary greatly.Ā And sometimes people stray from their partners, and when they are discovered they are cast out by those around them, they are made to feel ashamed for their actions, and the poor person on the receiving end is left heartbroken.

It isn’t just love

And it isn’t just love.Ā Vampires and werewolves are physically strong and volatile creatures, with often-intense reactions to people and situations.Ā  Humans can only imagine what it must be like to be immortal, to be forever young in appearance, or to have the ability to transform into a fearsome and powerful creature capable of wrecking havoc and destruction on those who would cross it.

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Baxter’s Collar: the Symbol of my Struggles as a Pregnant Dog Mum

I grew up with dogs in the family and took our family dog, Toby, to my new home with my husband when we got our first mortgage and had the freedom to keep a family pet.

When Toby crossed the rainbow bridge, I had to fill the dog-shaped hole in my life, and that is when we adopted Baxter the Staffy X from a local city dogs’ home.

Read my blog post to hear about my adventures of being pregnant for the first time and being a dog mum to an exuberant adolescent dog.

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#MummyMonday Baxter and Mummy.

14/07/10 – Being pregnant and being a dog mom

I woke feeling ill today.  At three months’ pregnant that is to be expected, but this wasn’t made any easier by my Staffordshire Bull Terrier Cross, Baxter.  Two weeks’ ago he cut his foot while out walking.  He had surgery last week, and this morning the vet removed his bandage to allow his foot to heal in fresh air.  But I got him home, put a giant lampshade collar on him, and he went crazy!  He alternated from bucking around the living room like a crazed bull, to glaring at me, barking at me, and finally staring at me with big, brown puppy-dog eyes, hoping I would feel guilty and remove the collar.

No such luck Baxter-Boy!Ā  Eventually he went quiet and then I discovered he had managed to reach his foot, which is his back left one, and he was licking at the wound furiously.Ā I jumped out of my seat, shouted loudly, making Baxter jump (and probably our two pet turtles as well), and wrestled his head away from his foot!

This carried on for the next hour, by which time I was at my wits’ end, with a thumping headache, and I phoned the vet.Ā  They were surprised that he had managed to get round his collar, but asked me to take him back and they would change it for a larger size.

Another visit to the vet

So we set off to the vet for the second time today, Baxter very excited at the car journey, and me very grumpy and ill.Ā The vet and her assistant, both of whom have become very well acquainted with Baxter in the last few weeks, met me.Ā They brought out a massive lampshade-shaped collar, which is apparently meant for rottweilers, and similar sized dogs, not medium built Staffy-Crosses! Of course it was too large around his neck, so they attempted to fasten it round his collar.

After much wrestling, griping from Baxter, reprimands from the vet, her assistant and me, we emerged from the veterinary centre with one extra-large collar, and a roll of bandage for use in securing it round his neck.Ā He looked like he should have been in traction, with the amount of white gauze wound around his collars and neck, but it was necessary to hold the contraption in place!

So we returned home, and Baxter managed to get stuck around the steering wheel in my car while trying to get out, then he hit the car door with his massive collar, then he hit the front doorway, and eventually we made it into the house!Ā And now he is lying cuddled up to me on the sofa as though nothing has happened.Ā Removing the collar so he can eat his tea, and replacing it after, will be another amazing feat, no doubt requiring two people to complete….

#MummyMonday My Dog Baxter by Catherine Green of #ADogisforLife. SpookyMrsGreen.com mindful parenting and modern pagan lifestyle blog.
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