Book Review: “Phantom Wedding” by A.N. Porter

Happy Free-for-All Friday, my spooky friends! This week, I’m diving into another ghostly tale with my latest book review. I picked up “Phantom Wedding” by A.N. Porter, hoping for a chilling British ghost story that would send shivers down my spine. The premise sounded promising, and as someone who loves a good haunting—both in fiction and real life—I was eager to see where the story would take me.

Unfortunately, this one didn’t quite hit the mark for me. While the book had its eerie moments and an interesting take on ghostly energy, I found myself struggling to connect with the characters or feel any real suspense. Maybe it’s written for a younger, faster-paced audience, or maybe it’s just a matter of personal taste. Either way, I’ll share my honest thoughts in today’s review.

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My Review of “Phantom Wedding” by A.N. Porter

I struggled to read this book. It sounded like a good British ghost story, and I was excited to read it, but honestly, it lacked the suspense that I had expected. The story moves very fast, and maybe it reflects the Gen Z audience for whom it is written, I don’t know. I’m an older Millennial and I like to take my time getting to know the characters in my books and enjoying the build-up. This book offers some gruesome scenes and reminds me of the movie “The Exorcist” in places, although it is not religious.

What I did like was the descriptions of ghostly activity being connected to energy and energetic memories. As a ghost hunter this resonated with me, and it is nice to see it described in a book with a mix of spiritual and scientific evidence. It will make you think about your home and the history of where you live, that’s for sure! I was a little more sceptical about the poltergeist activity described in the story, mainly because I have never directly experienced it myself and find it hard to believe.

Ultimately, I wanted to enjoy this book, but I just couldn’t. I didn’t connect with any of the characters, I felt no emotion for any of the events that unfolded, and I found it a bit ridiculous in places. Still, it is always worth giving an indie author a chance, because you never know who you will connect with in a story.  

About the Book

Patsy, a twenty-nine-year-old graduate working in music PR, was elated to receive the keys to her new North London flat. After all, acquiring a flat in the capital these days was like gold dust – so she couldn’t have been more pleased. But she soon realises that this is no ordinary flat. She gets an eerie feeling, accompanied by strange sightings and unsettling noises. It quickly becomes apparent that there is something or someone else occupying the same space. She is not alone… Her world is soon turned upside down when strange unexplainable events unfold. What or who is determined to make their presence known? Patsy has hopes and dreams of getting married and starting a family with her fiancĂ© Ben, but she quickly realises, that she may just get more than she’d bargained for…

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If you fancy giving Phantom Wedding a go, you can grab a copy from Amazon or Waterstones using my affiliate links. Have you read it? Let’s chat about it in the comments!

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Witchy Wednesday: The Gothic Side of Romance

Valentine’s Day is often associated with bright red roses, fluffy teddy bears, and heart-shaped chocolates. But for those of us who walk the witchy, gothic path, romance has a darker, more mysterious allure.

Step into my sanctuary as we explore the darker side of romance in today’s blog post. Love isn’t always about sunshine and roses—sometimes, it’s whispered in the shadows, wrapped in mystery, and touched by the supernatural. Let’s embrace the gothic allure of passion, where love stories are hauntingly beautiful and enchantingly dark
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Embracing the Dark and Mysterious

There’s something undeniably seductive about gothic romance. Whether it’s the brooding vampire lover, the passionate yet tormented werewolf, or the spellbinding connection between witches and mortals, gothic love stories tap into something primal and otherworldly. These are the tales of love that defy time, challenge the ordinary, and embrace the shadows.

As a paranormal author, I’ve always been drawn to this darker side of love. The thrill of danger, the deep emotional intensity, and the supernatural elements make gothic romance an irresistible escape. If you’re like me, you might prefer a candlelit evening with a haunted love story over a traditional rom-com.

Spooky Souls Deserve Romantic Gifts Too!

If you’re searching for the perfect Valentine’s Day gift for your gothic soulmate, I’ve put together a Valentine’s Day Gifts for Spooky Souls list on Amazon. It’s filled with eerie, enchanting, and alternative gifts to celebrate love with a hint of darkness. From gothic jewellery to witchy home dĂ©cor, there’s something for every spooky heart.

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How Do You Celebrate Dark Romance?

Do you embrace the gothic side of love? Whether it’s curling up with a hauntingly beautiful book, casting a love spell under the full moon, or sharing ghost stories with your valentine, I’d love to hear how you celebrate romance with a spooky twist!

Drop a comment below and let’s revel in the magic of gothic love. đŸ–€âœš

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We’ve survived the dark, cold clutches of January, and now we step into February—the month of love. But hold onto your broomsticks, my dears, because this year, I’m embracing a different kind of romance. No candlelit dinners, no mushy cards—just pure, enchanted self-love. 💜

You see, on this eerie journey of parenting and marriage, I’ve uncovered a little secret: no one knows what I need better than me. And right now, I need some magic, some care, and maybe a little mystery. Thankfully, my little ghouls—err, I mean daughters—are at the perfect age to join me in this bewitching adventure.

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The Mystical World of Crystals

Lately, my eldest daughter and I have been diving into the mystical world of crystals. It all began after a birthday visit to a crystal shop, where we left with new treasures shimmering with energy. That visit rekindled something long hidden—my own collection of enchanted stones, buried in the depths of a forgotten drawer like ancient relics waiting to be unearthed. My daughter insisted we retrieve them from their dusty slumber, and so, our magical quest began!

Armed with storage boxes from Amazon (because every witch needs a well-organized spell kit), we sorted, categorized, and rediscovered long-lost gems. We consulted our crystal bibles like ancient tomes of wisdom, piecing together the forgotten stories of tumblestones I found in a charity shop over a decade ago. Each crystal held its own power, its own whispers of the past—and together, we breathed new life into them.

The Joy of Spending Time Together

But the true magic of this journey? The bond between us. My daughters, now 11 and 14, are not just my little monsters; they’re my best friends, my confidantes, my fellow adventurers in this haunted house we call home. We discuss everything, from ghostly career paths (my youngest fancies becoming a detective, so she’s already scouting criminology programs!) to decoding the unique quirks of their dad—his autistic habits, his lovable oddities, and how we, as a team, navigate the mysteries of family life.

We laugh, we learn, we love. And that, my friends, is what this season is truly about.

How are You Feeling?

So, tell me, dear souls—how are you feeling? Do you need to sprinkle a little self-love into your life? Remember, we don’t need a romantic partner to fulfill us. We can craft our own coven, surround ourselves with friends who share our magic, and embrace love in all its supernatural forms. 💀💜

Stay spooky, stay enchanted, and above all—love yourself first. đŸ•Żïžâœš

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Book Review: “A Critical Introduction to Tarot” by Simon Kenny

Happy #FreeforallFriday, friends! 🎉 Today, I’m diving into the mystical and thought-provoking world of Tarot with “A Critical Introduction to Tarot” by Simon Kenny.

I was thrilled to receive a paperback copy from the publisher in exchange for my honest review and let me tell you—it’s as deep and fascinating as a perfect Tarot reading. Let’s explore this blend of philosophy and mysticism together!

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My Review of “A Critical Introduction to Tarot” by Simon Kenny

I was excited to read this book but truthfully, I found it a bit too heavy! There is a lot of information within these pages, including brief history of Tarot cards, references to popular psychologists, descriptions connecting Tarot to mystic practices including numerology, Kabbalah, metaphysics, witchcraft and more. It is all interesting and relevant, but you have to really concentrate on some of these chapters. This is a book for the academics and not the casual Tarot reader.

About the Book

How does Tarot work? Why is it so popular today? Is it just for fortune tellers?

Tarot has seen a recent uptick in interest that warrants explanation. This book, however, is not another take on the cards’ meanings and how to read them. Instead, independent researcher Simon Kenny presents Tarot to the incredulous and curious and those who wish to know the basis for its continued cultural relevance.

A Critical Introduction to Tarot explains the practice in its historical and metaphysical contexts, and investigates its supporting belief structures, from witchcraft and magical practices to popular psychology. Throughout these pages, connections to politics, philosophy, psychology, numerology, astrology, Freemasonry, statistics, interpretative symbolism, self-help, social media — even the nature of truth itself — are explored.

An accessible read aimed at demystifying Tarot for those unfamiliar with its magical, occult roots and growing use as a personal development tool.

Buy the Book: Amazon; WHSmith; Waterstones; Bookshop.org.

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#WitchyWednesday: Reflecting on January and Welcoming Imbolc

As January draws to a close, I find myself reflecting on the month that has passed. It’s felt like a long one, full of highs and lows, but mostly happy as we’ve celebrated my birthday and my teenage daughter’s birthday. These milestones have been moments of joy amidst the chaos of our everyday lives.

This time of year always seems to bring a mix of energy. It’s a quiet month of reflection, but also one that stirs hope for what’s to come. It’s the time when the wheel of the year turns towards Imbolc, a festival that marks the halfway point between the Winter Solstice and the Spring Equinox. It’s a time of awakening, of new beginnings, and of planting seeds for the months ahead. This Imbolc, I am focused on embracing the light as it begins to return, and on finding the strength to persevere through the darker moments.

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Reflecting on January and Welcoming Imbolc

Our family has faced its challenges, especially as we navigate the complexities of life with my husband’s autism. It’s not always easy, and some days feel harder than others. But one thing I’ve learned is the importance of communication, of speaking openly about our feelings, and of including our daughters in these conversations. Together, we face the ups and downs, and we support each other as best we can. It’s not always perfect, but we make it through.

As Imbolc approaches, I am reminded that it’s a time for cleansing and renewal. I’ve been thinking about how I can honour this season of hope, not only for myself but for my family. Imbolc is traditionally a time to celebrate the goddess Brigid, who embodies healing, creativity, and the spark of new life. It’s the perfect energy for us as we look ahead, recharging our spirits, and looking forward to brighter days.

Time to Nurture Creativity

This year, I am embracing Imbolc as a time to nurture creativity. For me, that often means writing, creating new stories, and connecting with the magic that flows through life. It’s a reminder that even in the darkest months, there is light to be found if we know where to look.

I also encourage you to take this time to honour the season. Cleanse your space, light a candle to represent the return of the light, and take a moment to reflect on what you want to bring into your life. Whether it’s new opportunities, creativity, or just the courage to face the challenges ahead, Imbolc is the perfect time to plant the seeds for your own personal growth.

May this Imbolc bring you renewed energy and inspiration. Let’s welcome the return of the light with open hearts, ready for whatever the next season may bring.

Blessed Imbolc to you all! 🌿✹

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Book Review: “Ghosted” by Mo Fanning

Happy #MummyMonday, friends! 🎉 Today, I’m diving into a heart-warming romance that proves it’s never too late for love—even when retirement is just around the corner. 💕

I was lucky enough to receive a paperback copy of “Ghosted” by Mo Fanning from the author in exchange for my honest thoughts, and I can’t wait to share my review with you. Ready to discover a story about second chances, laughter, and love? Let’s jump in! 📖✹

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My Review of “Ghosted” by Mo Fanning

It took a little effort for me to get involved with this book. Silas is not really likeable at first, and Ellen is a bit distant when we first meet her. She comes across as a grumpy old woman to be honest! But I stuck with the book and I’m glad that I did. While the subplot that Silas unwittingly gets involved with is a little ridiculous it is totally believable and probably does happen.

I enjoyed the slow romance between two older characters who were just average people with no specific professional achievements to brag about. They worked minimum wage jobs all their adult lives, they raised children, they lost their spouses in tragic circumstances. And then they found each other.

The book is about how we can still learn a lot of lessons as we grow older. We can learn that our own children are not perfect and that we are not necessarily to blame for that fact. We can learn about the wider world and lifestyles that are different to those we have lived with. We can learn to love again when we have lost a beloved family member. And we can overcome illness and the natural deterioration of our bodies as we grow older. It is a good book!

About the Book

Professional Santa Silas French fills out the same application as always for his regular stint at a New York department store.

Ellen Gitelman hangs her jacket behind the counter at the East Side Diner and smoothes out her waitress uniform, as she waits for the coffee pot to stop percolating.

A double whammy of bad news leaves Silas jobless, with no money to pay for a planned trip to reconcile with his estranged gay son Joey in Florida. Cutbacks at the diner cost Ellen her job.

A chance tip from his local bar gets Silas a job as Santa on a cruise ship that happens to be docking in Florida, where Joey lives with his husband and kids. Ellen heads to a cafe across the street and spots a bulletin board ad selling tickets for a cruise. Her riotous friend Julia volunteers as travel companion.

The MS Viking just happens to be carrying 3000 gay men in the mood to party. What could go wrong?

Silas soon finds himself involved with some unsavoury business and meets a potential new love in the form of Ellen.

Over the course of the Christmas Holiday cruise, the three slowly learn that what they thought they were seeking isn’t really what would make them truly happy, and that they are in control of their own choices.

GHOSTED is a dark romantic comedy about the continuing bonds we have with our loved ones after they are gone.

Buy the Book: Amazon; Waterstones.

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How to Provide Care Once a Loved One Passes Away

When you act as a caregiver for an elderly family member or loved one, you have to be prepared for anything. Unfortunately, something that every caregiver needs to think about is when their loved one will pass away. This can be a journey that lasts for years, or it can only be a few weeks or months before your loved one dies.

Understandably, you might have to cope with a lot of complex emotions. Grief can last a lifetime, but before you and your other loved ones can get far in your grieving process, you need to think about one last way to care for the person you loved.

So, here’s how you can help them rest at last.

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The Dying Process

Sometimes grief starts before the loved one has passed away. This is very common for people with terminal diagnoses. Different people have different experiences, as some might slowly fade away while others seem to recover slightly before passing more suddenly.

If possible, try to make the dying process as gentle as possible. If your loved one stops eating or drinking, it’s often a sign that they are nearing the end. Speak to them, even if they seem asleep, as hearing is often the last sense to fade away.

Some people want to talk before they die, and the best thing you can do is listen and be there. Medical care can be used to make someone more comfortable and provide palliative care, so find an option that works for your loved one’s needs.

The Legal Side of Things

Unfortunately, once someone has died, you might have to deal with lawyers. 

If your loved one has left a will, this makes things a lot easier for those they leave behind. A lawyer can make it easier for the family to divide any inheritance and, if some of the funds are to be used for the funeral arrangements, to pay for those.

A life insurance policy can also help those left behind, especially if someone died more suddenly. 

The Funeral Service

Sometimes people leave their wishes for their funeral in their will. If possible, try to follow their wishes as closely as possible. If something is slightly unusual, speak to the funeral directors about their wishes and they will help you. Sometimes you might need to explain to funeral guests that a certain change is due to your loved one’s wishes.

Ideally, a funeral service should be respectful but still appropriate to the loved one’s personality. This means that sometimes a little humour is fine, especially if that’s what they wanted.

Grief Over Time

If you’ve been a caregiver for a while, you might have a range of emotions. Some people feel guilt as well as sorrow, while others might feel anger or even a sense of relief. 

All of these are signs of grief and they might change as you mourn. If your grief is troubling you, speak to a therapist or someone you trust and work things through.

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5 Key Questions To Ask Yourself When Dealing With A Death In The Family

Death is never easy, but it is an inevitability. We all have to deal with the loss of a loved one at some stage. Firstly, condolences to anybody going through this situation. If you are one of them, though, navigating the situation in the right way should be your priority.

It isn’t uncommon to feel a little lost in this situation. Use the following five questions for some guidance and the journey ahead will feel just a little less difficult.

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What Does The Perfect Send-Off Look Like?

After processing the initial shock of losing a loved one, your attention quickly turns to the funeral arrangements. Naturally, everyone who loses a friend or relative wants to give them a fitting send-off. If you are set to play an active role, you must understand the average funeral costs to gain a clear insight into what’s possible. When creating a package, though, be sure to think about any personal touches that the dearly departed would have loved.

Themes, colour schemes, and music choices are just some of the key factors to consider.

Who Should Be Invited To The Funeral?

When picturing the perfect funeral for your loved one, the surroundings are important. Above all else, though, you want to ensure that everyone who shared a loving relationship with them is there. After all, the funeral is a celebration of their life and the lives that they touched, sending out invites in good time is crucial. Streaming services could be used for overseas loved ones or people who cannot attend due to accessibility. 

Finally, you should not be afraid to ban someone from attending if they would cause problems. 

Are Other Loved Ones Coping?

It’s only natural for you to feel sadness and miss the dearly departed. However, you should not forget the living. Caring for a spouse or relative through any mental health challenges isn’t only great for them. It’s great for you as it gives you an extra sense of purpose at this difficult time. It is a tough moment for all of you, but facing it together brings emotional comfort. Besides, the dearly departed would want to see this unity.

Be vigilant to symptoms that someone is struggling, and take action where needed. 

Am I Coping? 

Supporting others is one thing, but you must also take care of yourself. Losing a loved one could cause you to fall into a hole of self-sabotage. It doesn’t have to be defined by hours spent crying alone, either. Damaging habits like excessive drinking or ignoring career responsibilities can be equally bad. Bereavement therapy can be beneficial for surviving loved ones in many situations. This is also a time to fill your time more productively.

Whether that’s chasing a goal or benign around loved ones is up to you.

How Can Their Memory Live On?

While the funeral is a celebration of their life, you don’t want the loved one’s memory to be forgotten. Therefore, finding ways to ensure that it lives on is key. The headstone is a good starting point while you can also plant trees in the garden or commemorate them at home. Starting a charity in their name is another popular choice. The key here is to raise funds for something that they are passionate about.

It’ll help you cope on an emotional front while doing the loved one justice.

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Remembering my beloved Grandad

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Birthday Week in the Spooky Household!

Hello, my friends, and happy #MummyMonday! Today, the spooky household is buzzing with excitement as we kick off Birthday Week! That’s right – it’s a double celebration as my elder daughter turns fourteen today, and my own birthday is just around the corner on Wednesday.

Let’s dive into the festivities with a lighthearted look at life in our wonderfully wacky family.

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Birthday Week in the Spooky Household!

Birthday Week in the Spooky Household!

First, let’s talk about my fabulous fourteen-year-old. She is a marvel of contradictions and creativity – wonderfully spooky, beautifully quirky, and endlessly caring. Her dad and I are so proud of the young person she’s becoming. She’s my rock, always there to lend a hand when family life gets chaotic (and with our neurodiverse household, chaos is often the order of the day!). She has an uncanny ability to balance her own unique style with a deep empathy for others, and I’m constantly inspired by her strength and kindness.

Today might be a regular school day, but we couldn’t let the occasion pass without a little morning magic. Our day began with a gift ceremony that was small but heartfelt, filled with love and laughter before the usual scramble of getting everyone ready for school. I’m fortunate to have the day off work, so I’ll be counting down the hours until my girls come home, ready to celebrate in the best way we know how: together.

A Perfect Weekend in January

The weekend was the perfect prelude to Birthday Week. We spent Saturday exploring one of our favourite spots, Dagfields Antique Village. My daughter was in her element as she added a replica gun to her growing collection. It’s a brilliant find, reminiscent of the kind of weapon you’d see in the early seasons of Supernatural. As a fellow fan of all things pop culture and spooky, I couldn’t help but love it too! After Dagfields, we ventured to a farm and shopping village we’d never visited before, only to stumble upon an incredible crystal shop. It was like discovering a treasure trove of shimmering, mystical delights.

The highlight of our crystal haul was undoubtedly Upalite. This unique piece, shaped like a hand and eerily reminiscent of ‘Thing’ from The Addams Family, practically leapt off the shelf and into our lives. Upalite’s mysteries are as captivating as its appearance. I’ve scoured my crystal books and the internet but have yet to uncover much information about it, apart from whispers of its radioactive properties and UV-reactive minerals. I sense a deep dive into crystal research coming on


I will Celebrate my Birthday

Of course, no Birthday Week would be complete without acknowledging my own turn around the sun (or moon, if you’re feeling witchy). This past year has been a rollercoaster, filled with challenges both big and small. The cost-of-living crisis has kept us on our toes, and health niggles have made their presence felt. But amidst it all, I’m here, standing strong, and optimistic for the future. I’m endlessly grateful for the love of my family, the support of friends, and the little joys that brighten my days. Thank you, Great Spirit, for the gift of this wonderfully unpredictable human life.

So, here’s to a week of celebrations, spooky shenanigans, and finding joy in the everyday moments. Whether you’re marking a special occasion or just getting through the daily grind, I hope this #MummyMonday inspires you to cherish the little things that make life magical. Now, let’s eat some cake and celebrate in true SpookyMrsGreen style!

Sexy witch with fire behind her. Excerpt from Love Kills (A Redcliffe Novel) by Catherine Green with SpookyMrsGreen.com pagan lifestyle blog.
Excerpt from Love Kills (A Redcliffe Novel) by Catherine Green

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