Itâs the first Monday in August, and Iâm already running on empty.
Like many mums across the UK, I started the summer holidays with grand intentions: lazy mornings, outdoor adventures, time to write my spooky stories while the kids did âindependent activities.â The reality? Weâre three weeks in, and Iâm surrounded by empty snack wrappers, suncream-streaked laundry, and children who alternate between loving hugs and loud bickering.
Late-Night Chats about Ghost Stories
Still, thereâs something undeniably magical about the summer holidays with kids in the UK. Itâs not just the picnics and ice creamsâitâs the spontaneous trips to the woods, the late-night chats about ghost stories, and the freedom from school schedules. Iâm constantly exhausted, yes, but also grateful for the time we have together.
This year feels extra special. My younger daughter just turned twelve, and she asked for a professional camera and Heartstopper merchandise for her birthday. Sheâs growing up fast, discovering her identity, and capturing the world through a creative lens. Itâs beautiful and bittersweetâwatching your child become themselves is the truest kind of magic.
We marked her birthday with a Lammas celebration, complete with homemade cakes, a garden bonfire, and a quiet family ritual. We even toasted the occasion with traditional meadâdonât worry, just the grown-ups! If youâd like to try something a little different, get ÂŁ5 off when you buy two bottles of mead at the English Heritage Shop. Itâs perfect for your next magical gathering.
Witchy Parenting Journey
I often write about the witchy parenting journeyâraising kids while honouring the wheel of the year, embracing the paranormal, and finding moments of spiritual connection in everyday life. The summer holidays give us time to deepen those bonds. We build fairy houses, talk about haunted dolls, and stay up late watching the stars.
But Iâm not going to sugar-coat itâparenting in the summer is intense. I donât get much rest. The house is chaotic. My writing suffers. And sometimes, I just want ten minutes of silence.
So, if youâre a mum out there feeling the same wayâtorn between gratitude and burnoutâplease know youâre not alone. Youâre doing amazing, and you donât need to do it all perfectly. Youâre creating memories that will last forever, even if the dishes are piling up and the kids wonât stop asking for snacks.
Take a breath. Pour a cup of tea. Maybe light a candle and say a quiet blessing for yourself.
Youâve got this, mama.
đŹ What about you?
How are your summer holidays going? Are you managing to find moments of magic amidst the mayhem?
Drop a comment below or find me on Facebook @SpookyMrsGreen â Iâd love to hear your stories!
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